上世纪六十年代,斯坦福大学的心理学家做过一个著名的“棉花糖实验”。
In the 1960s, psychologists at Stanford University conducted the famous "marshmallow experiment."
研究人员给每个孩子一块棉花糖,并告诉他们:如果能忍住十五分钟不吃,就会再得到一块。
The researchers gave each child a marshmallow and told them: if you can hold out for fifteen minutes without eating it, you will get a second one.
有的孩子迫不及待地把糖塞进嘴里,有的则闭上眼睛、唱歌分散注意力,硬是熬过了漫长的等待。
Some children stuffed the candy into their mouths at once; others shut their eyes or sang to distract themselves, and by sheer willpower endured the long wait.
数十年的追踪显示,当年能够延迟满足的孩子,日后在学业和事业上普遍表现得更出色。
Decades of follow-up showed that the children who could delay gratification generally went on to do better in both school and career.
延迟满足并非压抑欲望,而是清楚地知道:有些回报,值得用耐心去交换。
Delaying gratification is not repressing desire; it is knowing clearly that some rewards are worth trading patience for.
遗憾的是,现代生活处处诱惑我们“即刻享受”:外卖半小时送达,短视频三秒切换,连知识都要“十分钟精通”。
Regrettably, modern life tempts us at every turn to "enjoy it now": takeout arrives in half an hour, short videos switch every three seconds, and even knowledge is sold as "mastered in ten minutes."
越是容易得到的快乐,越是转瞬即逝;越是需要等待的果实,越是甘甜。
The more easily a pleasure is gained, the more quickly it vanishes; the longer a fruit must be waited for, the sweeter it tastes.
人生如酿酒,急火煮不出醇香,唯有时间能成全风味。
Life is like brewing wine: no fierce flame can force out the mellow aroma — only time can bring the flavor to perfection.
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Key words 生词
迫不及待pò bù jí dàiunable to wait a moment longer
压抑yāyìto repress; to stifle
诱惑yòuhuòto tempt; temptation
转瞬即逝zhuǎn shùn jí shìfleeting; vanishing in the blink of an eye
酿酒niàngjiǔto brew wine
醇香chúnxiāngmellow and fragrant (of wine)
Grammar note 语法点
越是…,越是…
An emphatic version of 越…越… : 'the more (it is) A, the more (it is) B', often used for general truths. 例:越是容易得到的快乐,越是转瞬即逝。
越是紧张,越是容易出错。— The more nervous you are, the more likely you are to make mistakes.
A…,B 则…
Formal 则 marks a contrast between two subjects: 'A does X, while B does Y'. 例:有的孩子马上吃了糖,有的则熬过了等待。
南方多雨,北方则干燥。— The south gets plenty of rain, while the north is dry.
Check yourself 小测验
1. In the marshmallow experiment, what were the children promised if they waited fifteen minutes?
2. What did decades of follow-up reveal about the children who managed to wait?
3. According to the text, what is delayed gratification really about?